Oftentimes, we wonder if the intense, passionate attraction we have for a person is true love or not. We think it's true love but eventually realize that it was just lust; so how can we know that it's finally true love? Here are indications that you might be truly in love:
1. You think of him first before the I or me. You make him your priority. You think about his benefit before you do yours.
2. He is always on your mind. Not a day goes by that you don't remember the person; wondering what he is busy with. Did the day go well?
3. You want to be with him for the rest of your life. You can't imagine life without your beloved.
4. You have passion for him. You want to hug and kiss your beloved.
5. When planning, you always include him in your plans, like when you plan for a house; you consider his favorite color, etc.
6. You are willing to sacrifice your life for his, without hesitation.
7. You want to get to know his family better. Does his mother want cats or dogs? What's her favorite hobby? What's her favorite food?
8. You strive to work hard for a living so you could ask her hand in marriage. You started saving for the future, planning about what type of car to buy, what architectural plan your house would be.
9. He is your best friend. You can tell him anything and he understands. Even if you don't tell him anything, he still understands. There are several instances that prove being a best friend to your beloved makes for a stronger relationship.
10. When asked why you love him, you find it hard to give a reason. You truly love a person, when you love him for what he is. You have no reasons why you do, you just do.
True love though is like a plant that needs to be watered and taken cared of. It should be nurtured until it has taken firm roots in the ground. It takes constant renewal and understanding. It needs some sunshine to grow. When you experienced going through life's challenges together, it would make your love stronger and sturdier. That would be the time that you can self-confidently proclaim to the world that what you have is true love.
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